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Some things you might discuss in sex therapy

Some things you might discuss in sex therapy

Note: this article discusses consensual sex and uses examples of types of sex but does not have detailed descriptions.  In the US, mainstream culture has a confusing relationship to sex. On one side, there’s pressure for everyone to want sex and to be sexual. On the...

Music for Ramping Up 

Music for Ramping Up 

When we’re down and blue, music can be helpful for getting energized again. In April, we shared music recommendations from community members for slowing down—moving from high-intensity emotions to calm. But sometimes we need to do the opposite—giving ourselves the...

What is sexual harm?

What is sexual harm?

While at the Creating Change conference this year, I attended a day-long workshop on sexual liberation, facilitated by Ignacio Riviera and Aredvi Azad. The presenters talked about the idea of “sexual harm” as an addition to our conversations about sexual violence....