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Not everything is strength training

Not everything is strength training

Keep pushing. Just push through. Fake it til you make it. No pain, no gain.   Phew. There are a lot of messages I’ve gotten throughout my life that have tried to tell me that the only way to learn, to grow, and quite frankly to exist, is to always be striving, trying...

Surviving the Zombie Apocalypse: Video Games and Trans Survival

Surviving the Zombie Apocalypse: Video Games and Trans Survival

Quiet moments with food sizzling on the stove. Reading a book to learn carpentry. Tailoring clothes.  This is how I spend most of my time while playing Project Zomboid, a post-apocalyptic survival game, whenever I’m not frantically fighting off the mob. Unless I’m...

Image-Based Abuse and Trans Communities

Image-Based Abuse and Trans Communities

What is image-based abuse?  A recent study from the American Sunlight Project found that about 1 in 6 congresswomen have been the victims of sexually explicit “deepfakes.” Deepfakes are AI-generated images that appear real, and are often difficult to differentiate...