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Speculative Fiction as Medicine

Speculative Fiction as Medicine

Post election all I wanted to do was read and sleep. Not news reading or nonfiction reading or anything like that. At a minimum I wanted to escape and at best I hoped for medicine.  I asked AI to recommend speculative fiction with LGBTQ themes. The first one I picked...

Making mistakes when we care for others and what to do about it

Making mistakes when we care for others and what to do about it

I’ve been writing versions of this over and over for months. To face the many challenges in our world today: climate disasters, violence, fascism, scarcity, and more, we are called to embrace community and connection. Mutual aid asks us to get to know the people...

The perfect trans educator does not exist

The perfect trans educator does not exist

When I canvassed for the Human Rights Campaign in 2018, people would stop on the street to ask me questions about queer and trans identities. Sometimes they would tell me they “didn’t care what I did in the bedroom.” One woman put her hands over my head and prayed to...