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The perfect trans educator does not exist

The perfect trans educator does not exist

When I canvassed for the Human Rights Campaign in 2018, people would stop on the street to ask me questions about queer and trans identities. Sometimes they would tell me they “didn’t care what I did in the bedroom.” One woman put her hands over my head and prayed to...

TDOR and Gratitude

TDOR and Gratitude

Winter is a tough time for many people. As we deal with time changes, weather changes, the sun setting earlier, too cold weather or not cold enough weather, and the uncertainty of the future, many of us are also dealing with seasonal affective disorder, heightened...

Staying Safer during Election Season

Staying Safer during Election Season

Today is Election Day. Many of us are worried about the after-effects of the election, regardless of the results. For trans and nonbinary folks, and others with marginalized identities, it feels like a lot is at stake, both depending on who is elected and how the...