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Is this thing working?

Is this thing working?

“You’re not trying hard enough.”  “The system works if you work it.” “If you have faith, this will help.”  My therapist and I glared at each other when he said, “I don’t think you’re trying.” Actually, I glared, and I think he tried to have sympathetic therapist face....

8 Black Trans Artists to listen to this month

8 Black Trans Artists to listen to this month

Music in itself can offer a powerful tool to shift emotions, connect with ourselves, and heal from trauma. This Black Trans History Month, we're celebrating eight Black trans musicians, both past and present, who spread hope, resistence, and healing through their...

Love Letters

Love Letters

I come from a house of notes. Not structured sentences with eloquent endings, but monosyllabic requests and replies. Need ride to work. Okay. Do dishes. Yes. Grunts on paper and averted eyes in the halls. We lived as strangers, ignoring the blood that deemed us...