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COVID trauma and how it connects us

COVID trauma and how it connects us

When I attend masked events in my city, I feel a little more at ease than usual. Even when precautions aren’t “perfect,” I feel safer in a space with people who are willing to be a little bit uncomfortable to protect each other from the spread of illness. The part of...

Practice Sex

Practice Sex

Once upon a time, in the early days of the internet, there were AOL chatrooms. In these chatrooms, people would meet people for virtual sex, which really just involved sexting (pre cell phone sexting). For many, this was an incredible opportunity to safely explore...

Breadboards

Breadboards

Breadboard — made of plastic foam and metal. A clean empty slate with a fixed number of holes. You can plug things in as you wish and construct a circuit. When you are finished, you can pluck all of them away and reuse the breadboard for another test. The first time I...