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The Gifts of Nature and How to Use Them

The Gifts of Nature and How to Use Them

There is something about green on blue that feeds me. Something about leaves filling the sky like stars.  And there is something about stars. There is something about open space that gives me space to breathe, that makes the trauma as small as a seashell or a fern,...
The Weight of Shame and How it Moves Us

The Weight of Shame and How it Moves Us

Defining Shame A possibly shameful confession: I chose to write a blog post about shame because I wanted to understand it and have an excuse to explore it fully. Like a distant lover, I know it well but don’t feel like I understand it at all. Yet when I searched for...