a blog and resources for trans survivors and loved ones

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Mutual aid in the aftermath of natural disasters

Mutual aid in the aftermath of natural disasters

Tens of thousands of people have been impacted by Hurricane Helene. We recognize this extreme damage to the communities affected, and our hearts go out to those who are continuing to weather the aftermath of the storm.   In response to natural disasters all over the...
Access to Joy: Gender-affirming care for trans youth

Access to Joy: Gender-affirming care for trans youth

I had top surgery when I was seventeen.   There’s a lot of fearmongering going on about gender-affirming care for minors and what it entails. Politicians and public figures have used this point of division to remove access to life-saving care for young trans people....
Asking for help

Asking for help

I grew up in a culture that taught fierce independence, never asking for help, and pushing through, even when hurting. I have been working to learn something different for a long time, and I’m still working at it.   Like many people, I have countless stories about how...
Spiritual Connections: A Sacred Gender Review

Spiritual Connections: A Sacred Gender Review

“Many trans folks feel cut off from the Divine because we are taught not to see ourselves in it.”  What is your relationship like to spirituality or religion? How do you see your gender connected or not connected to your spirituality? Have you felt belonging in...
How do we assess risk? How do we know safety?

How do we assess risk? How do we know safety?

It’s hot outside. We’ve seen many days of record heat across the globe this year, and there are more to come. It’s also metaphorically hot. People are angry – some righteously so at injustice, genocide, oppression – and some because people they don’t like are seeking...