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Reclaiming my Disabled Trans Body

Reclaiming my Disabled Trans Body

Since before I was born, my body has been rejected. I didn’t have to declare a trans identity to face judgement. I didn’t have to do, nor say, anything; merely be in the process of coming into existence. Not only was I going to be born physically disabled in my bones,...
The simplicity of socks 

The simplicity of socks 

The world is pretty tough these days. Every day has a new form of chaos and upheaval. Every day seems to bring with it less certainty and more unrest. – At least that’s how it feels for me a lot these past few years.  A few months ago, my social media feed decided I...
Accepting a ‘No’

Accepting a ‘No’

Consent education often focuses on asking for consent and what is or is not consent. For example, consent is an enthusiastic yes – anything else is a no. It’s critical that people learn to communicate with each other – to be able to understand the differences between...
Book Review: Sorry I keep crying during sex

Book Review: Sorry I keep crying during sex

As someone who has cried a lot during and after sex, I immediately checked out Sorry I Keep Crying During Sex by Jesse James Rose when I saw it at the library. Then I learned the author is trans/nonbinary and the book is also about dementia. It’s like it was made for...
TDOV: The Trans Rights Read-a-thon

TDOV: The Trans Rights Read-a-thon

The Trans Rights Read-a-thon is an annual event from March 17-31st, the two weeks leading up to Trans Day of Visibility. The Read-a-thon encourages people to read books by and about trans/nonbinary people and donate to trans organizations. This year,...