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Image-Based Abuse and Trans Communities

Image-Based Abuse and Trans Communities

What is image-based abuse?  A recent study from the American Sunlight Project found that about 1 in 6 congresswomen have been the victims of sexually explicit “deepfakes.” Deepfakes are AI-generated images that appear real, and are often difficult to differentiate...
The power of writing shit down

The power of writing shit down

“It is so important and necessary to document, period. If we don’t know where we’ve come from, we won’t have the full knowledge to take us where we need to go.”  – Qween Jean, in conversation with Raquel Willis (Revolution is Love: A Year of Black Trans...
Speculative Fiction as Medicine

Speculative Fiction as Medicine

Post election all I wanted to do was read and sleep. Not news reading or nonfiction reading or anything like that. At a minimum I wanted to escape and at best I hoped for medicine.  I asked AI to recommend speculative fiction with LGBTQ themes. The first one I picked...
The perfect trans educator does not exist

The perfect trans educator does not exist

When I canvassed for the Human Rights Campaign in 2018, people would stop on the street to ask me questions about queer and trans identities. Sometimes they would tell me they “didn’t care what I did in the bedroom.” One woman put her hands over my head and prayed to...