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Reading about therapy isn’t therapy, but it’s still nice

Reading about therapy isn’t therapy, but it’s still nice

I’m not a therapist, but I think it’s fun to read books written for therapists. I really appreciate reading real life examples of what happens in therapy settings. Outside of going to therapy, most people only see therapy in TV shows and sometimes in fiction. But...
When things are hard: Taking care of ourselves and each other

When things are hard: Taking care of ourselves and each other

“The only way to survive is by taking care of one another.”  Grace Lee Boggs   Back when I used to be able to go hiking, I loved it. A dear friend and I would go on ridiculous adventures that we were generally not well prepared for. On one such uphill trek, with...
Mental Health and The Spaces We Live In

Mental Health and The Spaces We Live In

The spaces we spend time in affect us. They are shaped by who we are, and we are in turn shaped by them. Many of us are choosing to stay in hostile places or have no choice but to stay. How do we carve out space for ourselves and our communities? How do we create our...