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TDOR and Gratitude

TDOR and Gratitude

Winter is a tough time for many people. As we deal with time changes, weather changes, the sun setting earlier, too cold weather or not cold enough weather, and the uncertainty of the future, many of us are also dealing with seasonal affective disorder, heightened...
Staying Safer during Election Season

Staying Safer during Election Season

Today is Election Day. Many of us are worried about the after-effects of the election, regardless of the results. For trans and nonbinary folks, and others with marginalized identities, it feels like a lot is at stake, both depending on who is elected and how the...
Mutual aid in the aftermath of natural disasters

Mutual aid in the aftermath of natural disasters

Tens of thousands of people have been impacted by Hurricane Helene. We recognize this extreme damage to the communities affected, and our hearts go out to those who are continuing to weather the aftermath of the storm.   In response to natural disasters all over the...
Impacts of Trauma on Relationships

Impacts of Trauma on Relationships

In addition to changing our brains and bodies, trauma can impact our relationships with other people. This can be especially difficult to navigate, as one of the ways that we can heal from trauma is through connections with others. But trauma can make safe, supportive...