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What is sexual harm?

What is sexual harm?

While at the Creating Change conference this year, I attended a day-long workshop on sexual liberation, facilitated by Ignacio Riviera and Aredvi Azad. The presenters talked about the idea of “sexual harm” as an addition to our conversations about sexual violence....
Music for Slowing Down

Music for Slowing Down

Music is a powerful tool for regulating emotions. When we’re alone in the car, or wearing headphones on the bus, what songs do we use to release pent-up tears, or let out our rage, or remember an important moment with a loved one? Sometimes music moves us in ways that...
Celebrating the Trans Rights Read-A-Thon

Celebrating the Trans Rights Read-A-Thon

The Trans Rights Readathon is an annual event from March 21-31, ending on Trans Day of Visibility. It is both a call to action to read and support trans books as well as a decentralized fundraiser for trans organizations.   At FORGE, we were inspired to talk about...
Reflections on Eating Disorders and Trauma

Reflections on Eating Disorders and Trauma

  Transcript: Hello, everyone. This is Ryan Sallans, and this vlog that I’m providing is “Reflections on Eating Disorders and Trauma.” I hope that this can assist those that are currently struggling, or those that have family or friends that are...
Not everything is strength training

Not everything is strength training

Keep pushing. Just push through. Fake it til you make it. No pain, no gain.   Phew. There are a lot of messages I’ve gotten throughout my life that have tried to tell me that the only way to learn, to grow, and quite frankly to exist, is to always be striving, trying...
Surviving the Zombie Apocalypse: Video Games and Trans Survival

Surviving the Zombie Apocalypse: Video Games and Trans Survival

Quiet moments with food sizzling on the stove. Reading a book to learn carpentry. Tailoring clothes.  This is how I spend most of my time while playing Project Zomboid, a post-apocalyptic survival game, whenever I’m not frantically fighting off the mob. Unless I’m...