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Talking about Teen Dating Violence with Providers

Talking about Teen Dating Violence with Providers

As a trans teenager, a lot of my experiences with trying to advocate for myself—which was often a necessity as I tried to access gender-affirming care—were difficult, and sometimes traumatic. I still remember how it felt not to be respected or believed by providers I...
Pressure points for healing and anxiety

Pressure points for healing and anxiety

During the holidays, it can always be helpful to have different coping skills in your toolkit for dealing with stress and anxiety. We may already have some strategies we’ve developed (for more ideas, check out last year’s blog post on coping skills). But trying...
Telling our own Stories: Surviving Transphobia Review

Telling our own Stories: Surviving Transphobia Review

Surviving Transphobia is a collection of stories from trans “celebrities and experts,” who share personal journeys of self-discovery and perseverance through hardship. While some of the writers focused on large-scale forms of systemic transphobia, I was surprised and...
Creating your Bubble for Trans Survivors

Creating your Bubble for Trans Survivors

During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, communities developed strategies to take care of each other. While many people have returned to more-or-less “normal life” (and there are also many people who are continuing to take precautions), these same strategies can...