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Resistance and Resilience: Navigating safety at pride

Resistance and Resilience: Navigating safety at pride

The past couple of years at PrideFest, my anxieties around the potential for violence have become more intense. I’ve often tried to brush this off and focus on what I’m there for—to be present for the people I’m spending time with. Like many others, I want to be able...

Pride Everyday

Pride Everyday

Pride festivals, parades, and parties can be incredible, glittery, and empowering. They can also be exhausting or overwhelming. Pride events are not for everyone and that’s okay. It’s okay to have a quiet Pride. It’s okay not to be out during Pride. It’s okay to avoid...

When things are hard: Taking care of ourselves and each other

When things are hard: Taking care of ourselves and each other

“The only way to survive is by taking care of one another.”  Grace Lee Boggs   Back when I used to be able to go hiking, I loved it. A dear friend and I would go on ridiculous adventures that we were generally not well prepared for. On one such uphill trek, with...

Not Just Deep Breathing: Mindfulness Outside of Meditation

Not Just Deep Breathing: Mindfulness Outside of Meditation

Mindfulness meditation is a common technique used for healing from trauma. But a lot of these practices, at least in the traditional sense, can present challenges for trans and nonbinary survivors of sexual assault, intimate partner violence, stalking, or hate-fueled...

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